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Picking the Perfect Wedding Officiant

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It seems that media and magazines spend a lot of time focusing on all aspects of the wedding but the person who will marry you! It’s all just a big party without the Officiant and you should make sure that you are picking someone who matches your day and will bring your theme and vibe of your day into the ceremony. After all, the ceremony is the first thing your guest’s will experience and will set the tone for the whole day.

The ceremony should reflect you as a couple and be so meaningful and personalized that it will seem like you have an old friend doing the ceremony instead of someone you paid to be there! Here are some things that should be important to you when choosing that person:

Ceremony Selection: Does your officiant offer a huge selection of choices so that it creates a ceremony that is meaningful and that is flexible with your wishes in mind.  If you have a specific vision in mind, will they work within that or is it their vision?  Will they work with your time restrictions and offer new and exciting ways to make your ceremony different and unique? You could ask them what their favourite ceremony was and why? Or, what was the most unique ceremony they ever did?


Hidden Surprises:  Check your officiant’s testimonials or ask the other professionals you already have on board for your day if they have worked with an officiant they would recommend or who you should stay away from.  If you ask for no religion are they going to honour and respect that? Are you going to get a copy of the ceremony ahead of time so you can see word for word what they will say? Does your Officiant have a video that you can see of a past ceremony? You don’t want inappropriate jokes or long drawn out messages to you that are more about them than you.


Back Up Plan:  What happens if your Officiant gets sick, has a family emergency or is in an accident on the way to your venue? To avoid these type of emergency absences on your big day, what is the plan? Does your Officiant have others on stand-by that they can call in at the last minute?

Team Player: Is your Officiant known by the other professionals you have hired for your day? It may seem a strange question to ask but when you have a whole team of Professionals from the area you are getting married in that work well together and have a great positive energy with each other it only makes your day better! Some Officiant’s and Clergy have been known to have a low tolerance for photographers and videographers getting ‘in their way’ so make sure you know if yours will be okay with that!


Professionalism: Is your Officiant going to look professional and be there well before ceremony time? Is your Officiant going to be so booked up on your day that you are just a number and they are running in and out without even stopping for a photo with you? Your Officiant is going to be in a large number of your photos. Will they be in a robe or an orange polka dot dress?  How well are they going to get to know you? Are they going to write a personal message for you?

Licensing: This may seem like a no-brainer but you may want to verify this by going to  In the Province of Ontario your friend or relative can not just get licensed for your wedding on line like other States and Provinces, they must be licensed in Ontario.  How much experience do they have? Have they worked at the venue you will be at? They should explain all of the legalities of the ceremony with you in your first consult. If not, run!  If you are not doing a simple elopement style wedding there should always be at least two detailed consults with your officiant!

Local: Not totally necessary but, do they live close to your venue? Do they know the area well enough to get around traffic with short cuts? Getting in and around Niagara in the summer time is no easy task! You want to be sure they will not be rolling in at the last second! An out of towner may spend your wedding day sitting on the QEW!


Hidden costs: Are they being up front with how much everything is going to cost? You always get what you pay for. If someone looks like they are very inexpensive, there may be a good reason behind that! Do they include filling out all of the documents and paperwork for the government for you? Are they going to mail everything in for you? Will they charge extra for travel? Will they charge for each separate meeting you have with them?

Trust your Instincts: If you don’t feel a good connection with someone at a consult, trust your inner voice and do not book them. Your wedding vendors such as venue, photographer, DJ, etc will also be able to provide you with some feedback and direction. If you feel at ease with them, and feel confident that they will execute the ceremony of your dreams then the hard work is already done. Book them before it’s too late!  It is never too early to book an officiant...some are booked up well up to 18 months in advance.

If you are looking for someone who is going to tick every one of these boxes above please reach out to Cathy Davis & Co to create an amazing, beautiful ceremony that will be beyond your expectations! 

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Looking for someone for a Wedding Officiant for your wedding ceremony? Check out the "Officiants" category in the Wedding Directory of! Learn More…

Above Article Courtesy Of:
Cathy Davis | Cathy Davis and Company |

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